Is your relationship ideal? If you don’t know, try the following relationship test.
1. Detection of couples’ relationship: Is your relationship ideal?
1. In your opinion, the most ideal relationship should be:
a. Everything goes well for both of you (5 points).
b. Most of the time, everything goes well (3 points).
c. Close to each other (1 point).
2. Your life with your husband (wife):
a. Not together for a long time, rarely see each other (5 points).
b. Never separate (3 points).
c. Sometimes separate for a short time (1 point).
3. Do you think quarrels, sulking, ignoring, etc. between husband and wife due to some conflicts are:
a. A big tragedy (5 points).
b. Don’t happen (3 points).
c. It’s okay, the key is to get back together as soon as possible (1 point).
Couples’ Relationship Test: Is Your Relationship Ideal?
4. In your free time, how do you like to spend it:
a. Spend it with your husband and wife (1 point). b. Spend it with friends and family (5 points). c. Get close to each other (3 points).
5. For difficult and trivial housework, you always:
a. Compete to do it (1 point). b. Recommend it to each other (5 points). c. Share it properly (3 points).
6. What are your requirements for married life:
a. Quality and quality are the same when possible (1 point). b. Pay attention only to quantity (5 points). c. Pay attention only to quality (3 points).
7. The topics that cause the most arguments between couples are usually:
a. Financial expenses (3 points). b. Understanding of some things and how to deal with them (1 point). c. Suspecting that one party is unfaithful (5 points).
8. The general process of a couple reconciling after a quarrel is:
a. One party gives in (3 points). b. The relationship compromises (1 point). c. Neither of them is willing to compromise and needs external forces (5 points).
9. In terms of the basic orientation and methods of educating children, we:
a. Agree (1 point). b. Serious conflicts (5 points). c. Inconsistency in rare cases (3 points).
10. What do you think was the decision to choose him (her) as a relative:
a. A mistake (5 points). b. A wise choice (1 point). c. Not so good (3 points).
Scoring method: A. 10-17 points B. 18-37 points C. 38-50 points
2. Result of couple relationship test
A. The relationship is ideal
For us, marriage is not the end of love, but a deep dependence. Even if it is a little weird sometimes, it is the theme song of love in a peaceful life.
B. The relationship is ideal, but efforts are needed
Our relationship is ideal, but there are still some unideal factors, please do not ignore them. It should be noted that even if the starting point is the same, the end point may not be the same, so there is no need to worry about the unideal elements, and it should be regarded as normal. The key is to shape each other’s values.
C. The relationship is not ideal
Our relationship lacks emotional foundation. Even if you are polite, you are just making compromises. It is advisable to make efforts to make changes. The long-term imbalance of the relationship and the inability to communicate emotionally will make you feel unhappy and happy even if you are together all day long. It is also easy to cause “marital derailment”, please be careful.
